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SOCIAL ISSUES IN THE PLAYS OF MAHESH DATTANI

SOCIAL ISSUES IN THE PLAYS OF MAHESH DATTANI The plays of Mahesh Dattani emerged as -fresh arrival’ in the domain of Indian English drama in the last decade of the twentieth century. His plays deal with contemporary issues. They are plays of today sometimes as actual as to cause controversy, but at the same time they are plays which embody many of the classic concerns of world drama. I have selected -Tara’, Seven Steps Around the Fire, on a Muggy Night in Mumbai -Bravely Fought the Queen’ and -Final solutions,’ to study the contemporary values in these plays. 1.2 : JUSTIFICATION Dattani’s plays have a universal appeal. They can be staged anywhere in the world, they would draw full attention of the audience. Dattani moulds his subject in such a way that it is both topical as well as appealing. His plays speak across linguistic and cultural barriers. Dattani makes an abundant use of Indian mythology, rituals and traditions and contemporary problems, India is beset with but he elevates these themes to a higher level, touching the human chords that emanate love, happiness, sexual fulfilment and problem of identity. Though he lives in Karnataka, he writes about the whole nation of India, about the whole world he lives in. It is in the fitness of things that we must make an attempt at evaluating the play wright’s thematic concerns as well as his exploration of, and experimentation with stage. 1.3 : MAHESH DATTANI : HIS LITERARY ACHIEVEMENTS Mahesh Dattani was born in Bangalore on August, 7, 1958. He is the famous Indian English dramatist. He took admission in Baldwin’s High School and St. Joseph’s college of Arts and Science, Bangalore. He is a graduate in History, Economics and Political Science. He is a Postgraduate in Marketing and Advertising Management. He worked as a copy writer in an advertising firm and later on with his father in the family business. Dattani’s theater group-Play pen was formed in 1984. He made his directional debut with Mango Souffle. He has directed many plays for them ranging from classical Greek to contemporary works. Over a carrier spanning twenty five years he has written radio plays for the BBC and the film script of Ek Alag Mousam. Plays- (i) Tara (ii) On a Muggy Night in Mumbai (iii) Where There’s a Will (iv) Dance like a Man (v) Bravely Fought the Queen (vi) Final solutions. Mahesh Dattani received the prestigious Sahitya Akademi Award for his contribution to Indian Drama in 1998. The International Herald Tribune while praising Mahesh Dattani praised him as –One of Indian’s best and most serious contemporary play wrights writing in English.” Mahesh Dattani is India’s first play-wright to be awarded the -Sahitya Akadami Award’ for his contribution to the world of drama. Alyque Padamsee calls him one of the most serious contemporary play wrights. There are two published texts of Dattani’s plays-one a collection of plays while the other one is in parts. Recently his plays have been collected in a single volume called -Collected Plays’ published by Penguin. Alyque Padamee says, –At last we have a play wright who gives sixty million English speaking Indians an identity.” Mahesh Dattani is one of the famous Indian-English dramatists. He has successfully launched the Indian theater in English. In many of his plays, he deals with various issues like homosexuality, gender discrimination, communalism and child sexual abuse. In an interview -Personal Agenda’ Published in Branch on March 21, 2004 Dattani said, –The love of my life is drama and I want to write more plays.” His most distinguishing quality is wide range of themes that he deals with in his writings. Dattani’s plays are written for the stage. It is the visual quality and dramatic effect which are of paramount importance. Dattani shapes his subject in such a way that is both-topical as well as appealing. Alyque Padamsee assisted Mahesh Dattani in building his self-esteem and helped him in securing regular audience for his plays. As Mahesh Dattani points out in his preface –Alyaque believed in my work even before I believed in it myself. He gave me courage to call myself a professional playwright and director. In 1998, Dattani won the Sahitya Akademi Award for his book of plays. Final solutions and other plays were published by East-West Books, Chennai. According to the Sahitya Akademi Award, –(Dattani’s work) probes tangled attitudes in contemporary India towards communal differences, consumerism and genera brilliant contribution to Indian drama in English.” His plays deal with religious tension, sexuality and gender issue. Alyque Padamsee calls him one of the –most serious contemporary playwrights” Dattani takes issues that afflict societies the world over. He has chronicled the social victim and the follies, foibles and prejudices of Indian society. Some of Dattani’s plays are eloquent defences of society’s out casts and would be rebels. These plays include -On a Muggy Night in Mumbai,’ a compassionate look at the life and tensions of a homosexual community tricked away in Mumbai. -Both On a Muggy Night in Mumbai’ and -Do the Needful’ are probably the first Indian plays to boldly deal with the subject of homosexuality. The play -Final Solutions’ is about partition. It reveals how the engendered suspicion only deepens from generation to generation. The plays of Mahesh Dattani emerged as -fresh arrival’ in the domain of Indian English drama in the last decade of the 20th century. The plays have a great -contemporary value.’ According to John Mc Rae. –They are plays of today, sometimes as actual as to cause controversy, but at the same time, they are plays which embody many of the classic cancens of world drama.” Mahesh Dattani’s plays are revelatory in nature. If, in -Where There’s a will,’ it is the ghost not of Hasmukh Mehta but of his father that has to be recognised in -Dance like a Man’. In -Bravely Fought the Queen,’ it is a host of issues that have to be revealed and faced from the homosexuality of certain characters. Dattani shows us the hollowness of middle class lives. His plays explore what lies below the facades characters and families front up to fool the world. The family in Dattani stands for society at large. Dattani’s characters search for security and acceptance, to be true to themselves. In Dattani’s world the socialisation process initiated in the family unit has its aim the stunted growth of a bousaitres. The prominent theme of Mahesh Dattani’s later plays is homosexuality. Homosexuality is dealt with in -Bravely Fought the Queen’, -Where There’s a will,’ and – Dance Like a Man.’ Another important theme of Mahesh Dattanis’s plays in Gender Identity. -Bravely Fought the Queen’ foregrounds this whole issue with its very title. Dattai raises these and a number of other questions regarding gender and social stratification and hierarchy and sexuality. The most significant feature of Dattani is, perhaps his use of langauge. The note to his very first play, -Where There’s Will’ reads as follows. -Should the play be need in classrooms, I sincerely wish that English language teachers will not dismiss my syntax as bad English’ or worse still as incorrect, while knowledge of the rules of grammar is important, the richness and variety of the spoken word is a study in itself.” The past and the present both co-exist, and while the past has fashioned the present, the present helps the characters to re-read the past. Dattani’s stage techniques are aimed at making the audience intimate with the life of a family, its trials and trilantations and debilitating secrets. Dattani exercises great care in ensuring through his detailed stage direction that reader and potential directors understand all this. This division of the stage allows clearly demarcated space for certain characters, or time periods, as well as for different locales. C.K. Meena says, in an article on Dattani, –Unmasking the Middle class : The Drama of Mahesh Dattani” (Indian Review of Books, Vol., N. 6 1999), that this distribution of –the action among different levels on stage not only makes his plays visually exciting landmark but more at a snappy pace.” Mahesh Dattani defends his use of English as spoken by people in India and also goes on to make another serious statement. He says that his characters –would love to speak in Gujarati” and his challenge as a writer is to convey their Gujaratiness without distortion in English. Dattani’s characters speak the kind of English that most middle class Indians do. He also uses Indian English with great confidence and captures the rhythms of the spoken English. 1.4 : RESEARCH METHODOLOGY I have resolved to do research on the dramas of Mahesh Dattani : -Tara’, -Bravely fought the Queen’, -Final solutions’, -on a Muggy Night in Mumbai’ and -Seven steps Around The Fire.’ I shall take recourse to the following methods. 1. The study of various literary journals published in India and abroad incorporated in the corpus of the bibliography. 2. The study of various News-Papers in English in India and Abroad. 3. The analysis of each drama after close scrutiny.?

CHAPTER DIVISION

1.CHAPTER-1 INTRODUCTION

2.CHAPTER-2ISSUE OF GENDER DISCRIMENATION

2.CHAPTER-3ISSUE OF EUNUCH [SEVEN STEPS AROUND THE FIRE]

3.CHAPTER-4ISSUE OF HOMO SEXUALITY [ON A MUGGY NIGHT IN MUMBAI]

4.CHAPTER-5ISSUE OF COMMUNALISM[FINAL SOLUTIONS]

5.CHAPTER-6SUMMING UP

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DETAILED ANALYSIS CHAPTER-1 :INTRODUCTION Mahesh Dattani is a contemporary writer who writes sepcifically in English. Dattani’s plays question some of the norms and conventions of society. In the process, interesting questions arise regarding gender and other issues like homo-sexuality, lesbianism, child sexual abuse. Dattani tackles issues that afflict societies the world over. Dealing with issues like male-famale ascendance divide, the patriarchal tradition, consumerism, communalism, Dattani holds back nothing. Alygue Padamsee calls him one of the –most serious contemporary playwrights.” CHAPTER-2. :ISSUES OF GENDER DISCRIMINATION -Tara’ is a riveting play that questions the role of a society that treats the children of the same womb in two different ways. Dattani’s -Tara’ is a poignant play about a boy and a girl who are joined together at the hip and have to be separated surgically, which will mean the death of either of the two. The fact that the injustice perpetuated by the victim’s own mother whose preference is to the male child, makes the play more powerful suggesting that it is woman who continues the chain of injustice. Tara is not just the story of the protagonist of the play -Tara,’ but it is the story of every girl child born in Indian family whether urban or rural. The situation is aggravated if the girl is physically challenged or there is any other physical or mental deformity in her. It is a bitter example of child abuse present in the Indian societies. Every girl child born in an Indian family does suffer some kind of exploitation and if there is a boy child in the family, the exploitation is very much visible as the privileges are consciously or unconsciously propounded to the son. The scene opens in London with Chandan, now a play wright, reminiscing about his childhood days spent with his sister Tara. Tara and Chandan are two sides of the same self rather than two separate entities and that Dan, in trying to write the story of his own childhood, has to write Tara’s story. The play revolves around the Siamese twins, chandan and Tara Patel, an operation to separate the twins at birth, leaves Tara crippled for life. Chandan, the privileged brother wants to turn his anguish into drama on his sister’s childhood. Throughout the play we can feel that she bears some kind of grudge against the society. She seems to have some kind of aversion with the outside world and her world consists of only her parents and her brother whom she was ever close to. The play explores besides exposing the typical Indian mind set which has from time immemorial preferred a boy child to a girl child. It looks at the triumphs and the failures of an Indian family. comprising of father (Patel). mother (Bharati) and two children (Chandan and Tara) coping with the trauma of disability. Tara, a feisty girl, who isn’t given enough opportunities as were given to her brother eventually wastes away and dies. Chandan escapes to London, changes his name to Dan and attempts to repress the guilt he feels over his sister’s death. His sense of trauma and anguish is so intense that at the end of the play, we see Chandan apologizing to Tara in the most moving of all the lines –Forgive me, Tara. forgive me, for making it my tragedy.” CHAPTER-3 :ISSUE OF EUNUCH -Seven Steps around the Fire’, the most popular play, dwells on the theme of eunuchs, their identity, their constitution and their connotation. Uma Rao, the sociology scholar, emerges as the most powerful character of the play, the mouth piece of the playwright, who fights to establish the identity of an eunuch. Mammal, during her research on the class and gender – related violence and crime, meets justice in the nemesis of the play. An eunuch, a beautiful one, invited for marriage, and the final tragic death-all seem to be a mis construct. This is all about marriage of a beautiful hizra Kamla to a son of a wealthy government minister named subbu. This shocking revelation culminated into the murder of Kamla. The society accepts a hizra for gracing the ceremonies of marriage and births but would not allow them to portrayed of such ceremonies. The author has ironically portrayed this aspect which would not have been given any head, for any matter related to them is of no importance to anyone. The heart rendering story about a hizra that she is murdered simply because she had fallen in love with subbu a young man having a status of importance in society, fills us with horror and sense of injustice. Again in the play we observe how the Police officer refuses to subject him self to any medical examination to rule out the barrenness of his wife due to his impotency. This bias of squarely blaming the woman for her barren state is another societal phenomenon that Dattani exposes.

CHAPTER – 4 :ISSUE OF HOMO SEXUALITY -Bravely Fought the Queen’ charters through the emotional, financial and sexual intricacies of a modern day Indian family. -Bravely fought the Queen’ was written by Dattani in the year 1991 and it was performed at the Sophia Bhabha Hall, Mumbai on August 2, 1991. The narration is centred around an Indian family in which two brothers Jiten and Nitin, the co-owners of an advertising agency, have married two sisters, Dolly and Alka. The women remain at home much of the time, where they look after the men’s ageing mother Baa. Jiten and Nitin’s father was a cruel and a dark man who usually harassed their mother. The kind of cruelty perpetrated on Baa by her husband is brought to light every now and then in the play. Baa sees the picture of her husband in her elder son, Jiten and thus automatically develops an inclination towards her younger son, Nitin who resembles her a lot. So here we have two generations sharing the same experiences at the hand of their chauvinistic husbands and yet to come third generation, Daksha who also experiences the mal-treatment of her father even before her birth and is born as a disabled child. In the same way Dolly and Alka in -Bravely Fought the Queen’ arm themselves at the end of the play to fight back. Alka very boldly questions the authority of her husband and asks for an explanation for his disloyalty. She also exposes the betrayal of her brohther for not revealing the existence of homosexual relations between her husband and her brother. There was Kanhaiya, who represents the world of sexuality whether heterosexuality or homosexuality. He might be the alluring cook who might or might not be Krishna of Dolly and Alka, or the dark auto driver who embodies Nitin’s sexual guilt. Nitin at the end of the play exposes his homosexual relations to Alka who is fast asleep after getting drunk. Thus we see that women have not been presented as sinners but they suffer because of the men who are part of their lives. This play presents the concept of gay culture prevalent in big cities. -On a Muggy Night in Mumbai’ is a tragicomedy which deals with homosexuals In the play, Sharad and Deepali, though comfortable with each other, have different ways of being gay. More stress is laid on the characters of Kamlesh and Prakash who is also Ed and romances with Kamlesh’s’s sister Kiran. Initially Kamlesh and Prakash were ardent lovers when Prakash suddenly turns coats and changes into Ed, weaning the garb of a hand some guy, head over heels in love with Kiran, who unfortunately happens to be Kamlesh’s sister. Kamlesh playing the role of humble lover resides to the changed situation without complaining. Nevertheless, his sexual needs are fulfilled by sharad, his friend. He shocks us a bit by stooping down to mating with a guard for which he is ashamed of himself. Prakash who had now changed to Ed suddenly emerges into the room and the scene to meet Kamlesh’s sister and bumping into Kamlesh is revived of his earlier crush on Kamlesh, Nonetheless Prakash/Ed is ashamed of being a homosexual and tries to leave the place with Kiran as soon as possible to escape the cynical eyes of the others who knew about his relationship with Kamlesh. Karan is shown to having all compassion for the gay people and wishes they could many for happiness of her brother who she knew was homosexual. The irony of the whole story is that the poor girl did not know that the man to whom she was going to get married was homosexual and ex-lover of her brother. The revelation in the end comes as a shock to her. The whole story throws light on the growing homosexuality and its non-acceptance by the Indian Society. CHAPTER – 5 :ISSUE OF COMMUNALISM -Final solutions’ was first performed in 1993. This play foregrounds the Hindu-Muslim problems. It also tackles the theme of transferred resentments in the context of family relations. The characters in the play motivate us to think that angry out-bursts lead to chain reactions. The play opens with Daksha reading from her diary. An oil lamp converted to an electric one suggests that the period is the late 1940. Daksha is the grand mother of Gandhis. Daksha closes her diary and then Hardika appears on the stage. She feels the things have not changed that much. In the living room of the Gandhis, Aruna, Ramnik Gandhi’s wife, enters while Aruna’s daughter Sunita and her husband are retiring for the night. Ramnik doesn’t like Hardika’s telling his daughter that –those people are all demons.” Aruna is a God fearing woman who thinks that everything will be smooth and peaceful one day. Ramnik saves the two boys- Bobby and Javed. Ramnik thinks that Javed has done an unforgivable act. Ramnik, a liberal minded person, offers a job to Javed only to give him a chance. Ramnik transfers his anger at his own father’s black deed (burning the ship) to his mother. In the name of communal hatred, this shameful act is done by Ramnik’s father. The play is a fine example of transferred resentments. Smita, who is unable to express her love for Babban, criticizes her mother bitterly. The play mocks at the politicians who use people as their puppets. These puppeteers are the culprits. The play-wright at the end of the play, wishes to stop this game of hatred and communal tension through the character of Ramnik. Ramnik accepts that his father has done the black deed. We should forgive the offenders and forget the past. This can be the final solution. CHAPTER -6 :DATTANI’S ACHIEVEMENT AS A PLAY WRIGHT Dattani’s plays have contemporary values and his plays can be said to have been impaired by Ibsen the Father of Realism. Dattani handles every problem from gender issues to sexuality very successfully. Dattani’s achievement as a play wright depends on the fact that his plays are a slice of life. They present reality as it exists. Dattani’s theatre group, playpen, was formed in 1984 and he has directed several of their plays ranging from classical Greek to contemporary work. He has an array of themes to offer in his plays and the issues he chooses to project are the most topical but also the most controversial one. Dattani’s plays, have purely performance – oriented scripts that elicit from the audience and emotional as well as strongly intellectual response. His plays address the middle class and only the middle class. The reason is not far to seek-it is this class that constitutes his audience. Dattani has created a vibrant, new theatrical form which is a marked development on the hither to stagnant Indian drama in English. ? BIBLIOGRAPHY A.Primary Sources 1. Tara : In Collected Plays (New Delhi Penguin 2000) 2. Bravely Fought the Queen In Collected Plays (New Delhi : Penguin 2000) 3. Final Solutions : In collected Plays (New Delhi : Penguin 2000) 4. Seven Steps Around the Fire (New Delhi : Penguin 2000) 5. On a Muggy Night in Mumbai (New Delhi : Penguin 2000) B.Secondary Sources 1. Karnad, Girish : Author’s Introduction, Three Plays (New Delhi, Oxford university Press, 1994) 2. Ramanujam, A. K. –Introduction” Follktales from India (New Delhi, Viking 1993. 3. Naik, M.K. Dimension of Indian English Literature (New Delhi, Sterling, 1984) 4. Styam. J.L. The Elements of Drama (London : Cambridge University Press, 1960) 5. Iyenger, K.R.S.- Indian writing in English (Bombay, Asia, 1977) 6. Iyenger, K.R.S.-Drama in Modern India (Bombary : The P.E.N. All India centre, 1961) C.Articles 1. Padamasee, Alygue –A note on the Play” in Mehesh Dattani, Final Solutions, collected Plays (New Delhi : Penguin India, 2000) 2. M.K. Naik –Cinderella Still : Recent Indian English Drama” Littcrit, Vol. 27, Number and 2, June – December 2001. 3. The New Indian Express, Friday October 15, 1999. 4. The Hindu, Sunday March, 9, 2003. 5. Devy, G.N—Indian English Literature and common Wealth Literature” In Another Tongue 1993, Madras, Macmillan, 1995). 6. Reddy K. Venkata and Dhawan R.K. (ed) Rtd. -Flowering of Indian Drama (New Delhi Prestige 2004). 7. Asnani Shyam –Indian English Drama’ spectrum History of Indian Literature in English ed. Ram Sewak Singh and Charu Sheel Singh (New Delhi, Atlantic, 1997) 8. Naik, M.K.—The Achievement of Indian Drama in English’ Dimension of Indian English Lieterature (New Delhi : Sterling, 1984) 9. Dattani, Mahesh : –Contemporary Indian Theatre and Its Relevance,” Journal of Indian Writing in English, Vol 30, No 1, Jan 2002.

House Music – The Origins

Establishing “House”

The birth of the words “house music” is a hotly argued question amidst artists and DJ’s. Some people assert it originated from a night club called “The Warehouse” where longtime resident Producer/DJ Frankie Knuckles played a distinctive brand of dance music until 1982 when the establishment closed down. Knuckles himself suggested he initially witnessed the term when driving by a bar on the south side of Chicago that hung a sign in its window reading “We play house music”. DJ Leonard “Remix” Rroy suggests the sign was likely a reference to the style of soulful songs one would listen to at your own house.

A second sentiment is that the phrase referenced the production of music in the residences of groundbreaking DJ’s and dance producers. These early creations would be recorded with synthesizers, drum machines and sequencers. Many others assert that “house” references the relationship of particular tracks with their respective DJ’s, as in the house DJ’s played their very own house records.

The Fathers of House Music

The Chicago night club scene of the early 80’s was spurred by DJ’s spinning a number of styles of music like disco, hip hop, funk, pop, and R&B. The beginning of somewhat economical electronic instruments led to some DJ’s crafting their own combination of existing tunes by mixing in drum machines and effects.

Seen by many to be the very first original house music record, “On & On” by Jesse Saunders was published in 1984. The album’s prosperity ignited a wave of tracks from the earlier DJ’s attempting their hand at putting out house music. The music soon branched off into subgenres of house such as deep house and acid house.

Through the support of club DJ’s such as Lil Louis, Frankie Knuckles, Ron Hardy, and radio stations like WBMX, house music quickly gained popularity in Chicago. Concurrently, house began to spread to nearby DJ’s and producers of Detroit, Michigan. Artists like Marshall Jefferson helped push house outside of Chicago with his hugely well known track “Move Your Body”. From the middle to late 1980’s artists such as Larry Heard, Derrick May, Kevin Saunderson, Farley Keith, and Steve Hurley, persisted to popularize the style.

Now, house music is more prevalent than ever and can be heard in a variety of forms in night clubs spanning the earth. The genre has continued to fork off into subgenres including progressive house, electro house, techno house, breakbeat, and the list goes on. House isn’t just a style of music, but is a religion protected by loyal followers the world over.

Stop Being A Wussie Grow Some Balls And Il Show You Its Possible To Have Any Women You Want.

OK, if your reading this your well on your way to stop being some bumbling idiot when it comes to attracting women you desire.

I’m going to be very blunt so if your easily offended i couldn’t care less.

The most common hurdle for all you wussies out there is fear of rejection, its like this crippling emotion that sets in just at the mere thought of approaching the beautiful brunette you see.

Why?

IL tell you.

You have not found your critical factor that makes you uniquely you.

IL explain what i mean by this.

Yeah there are loads of fancy techniques to attract women get there numbers then get them into bed however, without the critical factor it means nothing, your just another nerd trying to get a women way out of your league.

Now i know your a really sweet guy who just wants a women to like him and you’ll give her the whole world before she even sleeps with you.

Wake up mate, your an idiot

Your just giving away your power and leaving yourself open to get dropped like a ton of bricks.

Do you really think a women you just met gives a flying fish about you.

Your words mean nothing at the moment, at this moment how you conduct yourself is way more important than what you say.

Let me say this again.

How you conduct yourself is way more important than what you say.

Il give you a real life example.

I was in a club in London chilling out with a few of my boys, were dancing and joking around as usual then down the stairs comes a few girls.

Now there were a couple hotties but one was just plain smoking.

So what do i do, i acknowledge then ignore.

So I’m still dancing and having fun and i notice a bunch of guys start hovering around this girl and her friends like flies on shit.

Automatically all of these guys have made a fatal mistake, there showing this girl how hot she is by floating around her like fairy’s and giving this girls ego an extra boost.

So now this girl is in a position of power she can have any of those guys at the click of a finger.

Do you really think she finds that attractive even if the guys are her taste.

No way

In fact, in her mind at that moment she’s disappointed because these guys have displayed the same flaw that 99.9% of guys do.

Give away to much to early.

OK, so now i see an opportunity because those idiots have failed and they dont even know it yet.

I see one of her friends go to the bar, and i approach the friend.

Politely i say “look tell your girl I’m not looking for marriage sex or a girlfriend, just let her know id like to introduce myself in a less active environment”

There was loads of bars in this place and the one i was at was pretty quiet.

Your probably such an idiot you didn’t even understand the implications of my words to her friend.

I said i dont want marriage sex or a girlfriend i have totally eliminated all subject matters that women think men are approaching them for.

Women would not actually think that just at the sight of them we actually like them….NOOOOO that’s just impossible.

So i turn my back to the dance floor and start talking to the barmaid, i said to her if i have played this correctly there should be a really hot girl walking up behind me could you let me know if shes coming.

As soon as i said that the barmaid gave me a heads up.

The girls taps me on the shoulder, looks at me and says “you dont want marriage sex or a girlfriend so what do you want”

At this point shes waiting for the chat up line or some cheesy comment.

I tell her “look il make this real simple for you (you would of loved to see the look on her face when i said that) anyway, lets skip the pleasantries like how you doing, where your from, what school you went to and all that crap, i really couldn’t careless.

I’m out enjoying the night with my friends i want to get back to the dance floor with my mates and party the night away however i fancy going for lunch tomorrow and i want you to join me so put your number in my phone and il see you tomorrow.”

She kind of looked at me in shock like is this guy for real, she still put her number in the phone and i left her at the bar with a drink i pre ordered for her and ignored her the rest of the night.

I hope you see the difference between those idiots on the dance floor and the way i conducted myself, for each situation there is away to go about dealing with it.

Not only that, those idiots on the dance floor came up to me and said how did you do that bro, i simply said “i did the exact opposite of what you did.”

Not at any point did i tell her how hot she was or what a great body she has.

She knows this already

You have to be bold and not care.

Now I’m not saying dont care about women that’s just stupid. What i mean by not caring is not giving a damn about her response whether she excepts or rejects you.

Just move on, there is a sea of beautiful women out there waiting to find you but the fish are not going to jump into your net.

Well that happens to.

So stop fumbling around like some wuss and grow a pair. Jump out of that box your in even if it means you embarrass yourself its all part of your critical factor.

Guys like sexy bodies and big bums, well i do anyway. Women like personality traits, that girl in the club was attracted to my bold cheek and forwardness its that simple.

If you continue doing what most of those idiots in the club are, your a moron, if your listening to guys who dont get women at will your an even bigger idiot than they are.

Find your critical factor, what makes you different than all the other guys out there and if you think for one minute that looks plays the biggest part your more stupid than i thought.

Everything You Need To Know About Kim Kardashian Bio And Interesting Facts

Kim Kardashians real name is Kimberly Noel Kardashian, and she was born on the 21st of October 1980.
She is the daughter of Kris Jenner, ne Houghton, previously Kardashian as well, and the late celebrity attorney Robert Kardashian.

She is best known for being one of the stars of the reality tv show Keeping up with the Kardashians, and for starring in a number of talk shows and having been a participant on Dancing with the Stars. She has also acted in several movies, for instance in Deep in the Valley, as well as in Disaster Movie.

She also runs fashion stores in LA, Miami and New York with her sisters and has co written the book Kardashian Konfidential with her two sisters Khloe and Kourtney.

But her main business, so to speak, is modeling. She is currently the face of Bongo Jeans, Travis Barker’s Famous Stars and Straps, Quick Trum, Perfect Skin as well as Balenciaga shoes, just to mention a few companies she works with.
She has also appeared in Playboy, FHM and many fashion magazines.

Kim Kardashian has also released a series of fitness DVDs, entitled Fit In Your Jeans By Friday, her own perfume (simply called “Kim Kardashian”) and she also designs jewelry. Kim also adds new projects to her resume all the time. The latest buzz was that she was supposed to go into the music industry, together with Kanye West (a rumor circulating around the end of 2010/the beginning of 2011).

Kim was married to producer Damon Thomas for 4 years, from 2000 to 2004, and has dated several celebrities such as Ray J (with whom she also made her infamous sex tape), Reggie Bush and Miles Austin. She is currently said to be dating Kris Humphries from the New Jersey Nets, but she has not confirmed this herself.

Joe Onyero is way more than your average artist.

www.juno.co.uk/artists/Joe+Onyero/?show_digital=1 He is a full rounded persona within the music enterprise: an artist, a document producer, a DJ, a track writer, a dancer and choreographer, an entrepreneur, and a music video director. His love for music led him to tour the world DJing and performing, as well as working a facet career as a dance teacher. His connection with the artwork of dancing is such that Joe Onyero finds inspiration for his track writing instantly from his dancing. This colourful strategy is likely one of the explanation why he is recognized all over the world: his inspiring dance strikes and his incredible presence as a showman and high class entertainer hold improving, document by file, hit after hit. Joe Onyero relies on a really eclectic background, significantly regarding his huge and kaleidoscopic musical output, though he primarily sees himself as an ???digital dance music artist who likes so as to add some totally different flavors from everywhere in the world every so often??? Following the unimaginable success of hit singles the likes of “Now Or Never” or At Final (that includes gifted fellow artists the likes of Nadjo Torres and Audrey Foster), Joe Onyero set out to hit the global music scene along with his model new studio effort: “You will be My Mountain”. joe onyero – Joe Onyero is again on the scene with a brand new single: You Can Be My Mountain. You can Be My Mountain is yet another vital step ahead for Joe Onyero and the brace instructions and possibilities that he determined to take with his own track writing method and performances. This time, Joe Onyero set out to deliver a compelling, emotional and texture rich duet with this brand new tracks, a love music that has acquired a very unhappy feel to it, but on the other aspect, it has got a very vibrant, uplifting and hopeful view of love, as the unifying drive of the world. After all, you would possibly say that Love itself is almost like a model for Joe Onyero: His previous hits, “At Final” and “Now Or Never”, had been absolutely focused on the subject, utilizing the true energy of love as a true central concept to both singles. Both songs highlighted the importance of love and of the individuals who spread it: by means of dancing, via music; via simply following your life and living your passions and feelings. In different phrases??seize the day??carpe diem, as a result of love is one thing that needs to be totally expertise in the moment, it’s all about what we’ve got proper now. Joe Onyero takes the message of affection on an even deeper and extra profound stage together with his brand new single, “You might be my mountain”. The song options an amazing duet with singer “Or?”, a gifted feminine vocalist that provides incredible depth and emotion to the efficiency. The two singers work completely collectively. Her bright strategy actually stands out and perfectly complements Joe Onyero’s full, sustained and heat vocal style. joe onyero a song writer To date we talked about the lyrical side of the tune, its inspirational, heartfelt and emotional content, but the musical aspect of this tune is nothing much less thrilling and exciting: The production work behind ???You can be my mountain??? is so nicely calibrated, powerful, focused and balance that it might simply stand the confrontation with even probably the most quoted and requested dance music artist on the scene (on a worldwide basis). Joe Onyero really topped himself of this time, creating music that truly transcends feelings and music styles alike. A dance track with the emotional power of a ballad; also featuring a memorable duet like you haven??t heard in ages. Watch out for an upcoming world tour! Watch “You Can Be My Mountain” Here:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I3HESzLrBJo

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